On
Marriage, from The PROPHET, by Kahlil
Gibran
When Almitra
spoke again and said, "And what of Marriage, master?"
And he answered
saying:
You were born
together, and together you shall be forevermore.
You shall be
together when white wings of death scatter your days.
Aye, you shall
be together even in the silent memory of God.
But let there
be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the
winds of the heavens dance between you.
Love one
another but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather
be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
Fill each
other's cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one
another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.
Sing and dance
together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone,
Even as the
strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same
music.
Give your
hearts, but not into each other's keeping.
For only the
hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand
together, yet not too near together:
For the pillars
of the temple stand apart,
And the oak
tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow.
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